[Sonador101]

The other day I was taking a babysitting class, and there was a break, all the other girls quickly got into groups and started talking, but not me no, I went to the wall and watched the others, like always I figured "they'll think i'm intruding, i should just play it safe" by playing it safe I mean not talking to anyone, and I freeze, the weird thing is when I'm with people I know, I am a complete socialite, its so weird, this happens a lot and I want it too end, I want to have a lot of friends but how can I do this if I'm always worrying abour what could happen to me, even though probely nothing will. HELP, I am desperate, I need this promblem fixed pronto before school starts in like ekkk September! Help.

[Sonador101]

This happens all the time

[blairwtsn]

Why wait till Sept to fix this silly problem? :-)

The best way to cure this for good is...

Is to be the one that creates the gathering group.

Make sure you intorduce yourself to new faces.

"Hi My name is...... What is your name?"

"A group of us are getting together at break would you like
to join us?"

Take it from someone who used to be shy years and years ago.

Don't worry about intruding...

Be a friend first.

Hope This Helps You.

Blair

[ashley568]

I was exactly like you and I still get uncomfortable a lot when meeting new people but I've found most people like to meet new people and will enjoy your confidence. So just smile and say hi.