[Stuart Barclay]

I am adopted. How do I find my biologocal mother?

[Fr_Chuck]

Open or closed adoption, do you know her name, do you have a copy of the legal adoption paperwork your adopted parents got when you were adopted)

Finding the mother is often harder since women remarry, change names sometimes a few times. So the first stop will be to set down with your parents and find out what they know.

But I willl offend everyone again and ask why, since your real parents are the people who raised you.

[Synnen]

First step is to talk to your adoptive parents.

Then, contact the courthouse in the county you were adopted.

Next, contact the adoption agency.

It's a good idea to register online at several adoption sites as well. Adoption.com and adoption.org are the two that first jump to mind for me.