[babyhungry118]

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I am scared I am not able to have childeren...
I am 18 years old and I have a 19 year old boyfriend.. and since 12/25/07 I had lost mah virginity for the 1st time to mah boyfriend of 8 in a half months and since the end of feb we have been trying to have a baby. And I can't understand why mah periods are regular and for the most part always have been... but for some reason I can't get pregnant. =( and its heart braking... I have took internet advice friends,family,everyone's advice on how to get pregnant and I still can't after almost 4 in a half months of trying...

[starbuck8]

You are only 18! Why are you trying so hard? Calm down and put your priorities in order. Maybe someone is trying to send you a message that you are too young right now to even think of having a baby! Live your young life! You might not know it, and might be very angry with me for saying this, but at the age the two of you are, the likelihood of you ending up being a single mother is HUGE at your age. A boy of 19 usually doesn't know what he wants for his future, and a girl of 18, could be stuck in a very bad situation, raising a baby alone.

I'm hoping you don't think I'm just some older person trying to treat you like a child. I'm just telling you what I know to be true, and could almost predict with 90% certainty. How about putting your relationship with your boyfriend first for now. 8 or 9 months is a very short period to get to know a boy, and what his goals are. Getting married for the right reasons, before having a baby should be your priority, Have you ever heard the expression "you're putting the cart before the horse?"

I suggest some counseling to get to know yourself a bit better, and the same for your boyfriend, before you even consider bringing another baby into this world.