[Ivelisse DeJesus]

I have a friend named Carla and Cynthia and they are going out and both of them love each other very much!
But, The Cynthia's mom does not approve of that and does not want my friend Carla to go out with her daughter. If she does see her around with her daughter that she would get her arrested! I think that's stupid if 2 people are in love with each other y can't they go out and be together?

[liz28]

Your friend can't change who she is and her mom should accept her no matter what and this includes her girlfriend. If her girlfriend and her and not doing any wrong and her only reason for disliking her is because she can't accept her daughter is a lesiban is wrong. I use to think what will I do if my daughter goes this route but want not bother me because I love my daughter and at least I don't have worry about her getting pregnant,lol.

Some parents have fear of their child being a lesiban. She has to show her that's she truly love her and have a heart feel talk with her mom. It hard already for some people in society not to accept it but have it coming from mom hurts worst. Maybe she can get support from a local gay/lesiban support group or a counselor to help her, but she needs people who are or went through the same thing for support and they have support groups everywhere. How old ar they?

I happy for your friend and glad she did not stay in closet and that's hard for some people. Her mother migh think it's a phrase or simply accept it, but who knows she might wake up and smell the coffee and accept it. Tell her just to try and talk to her mom and express her feeling and hear what her mom has to say.