I guess you have a major red flag about your status as becoming an independent adult woman... you are still as emotionally dependent as a child, and that is a problem for you.
To be an adult, every person has to have a well-balanced life in order to maintain emotional stability... hobbies, sports, friends, continued education, volunteering, a lover, enjoyable work... this is important because when one area of one's life disappears for whatever reason, then there are so many other aspects of life to enjoy, a person is not swept under.
It takes work to build a life, and it can't be done overnight.
It might be a good idea at this time to talk to a therapist about your emotional situation an get some positive support at this time. :)
Best wishes,
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