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    moniquex0ox Posts: 9, Reputation: 0
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    May 13, 2008, 03:36 PM
    Too early or no ?
    Kkay I been going out with my boyfriend for 3 months but I been talking to him for about 5 months lately he's been asking me about sex & all I think its too early but I don't know
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    May 13, 2008, 03:43 PM
    Well he's obviously not using you or anything or he ouwld have left by now. 3 mo.s no sex that's a while. Well I've never waited that long... unless you're a virgin then yeah I need to know that . Lol if your not then yeah go for it.
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    May 13, 2008, 03:55 PM
    Okay listen little hornball ! Don't have sex you'll rreget itt ! Hahaahh jk..

    Honestlly preteend you don't noe mee when I'm about to say this..

    If your not readdyy odnt rushh , I mean urra virginn so your nevevr going to bee readdii never , its just going to happen it not somthin to plan so in the moment if yous are about to and you feel compftbol then go all they way , if not then don't . & be honeslt with him
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    May 13, 2008, 04:08 PM
    Well how old are you ? Are you ready to become a parent, since no birth control is 100 percent effective?
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    May 13, 2008, 05:14 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by moniquex0ox
    kkay i been going out with my boyfriend for 3 months but i been talkin to him for about 5 months lately he's been askin me about sex & all i think its too early but i dont know
    Wrong, you know exactly what you think. You said so yourself. You think it's too early. That means it's too early.

    When you say "I don't know"... what you really mean is "I like him and know he's going to keep wanting it and don't know how to keep saying 'no' wthout getting him mad or losing him." Is that about right?

    You don't have to keep saying 'no'. You can tell him, "I like hanging out with you, even being your g/f, but this is the last time I'm going to say no to sex. The next time, I'm going to have to break off with you since you make me think you don't respect me or my wishes. If you really like me, you'll never bring it up again unless I do."
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    May 14, 2008, 08:07 AM
    Remember this and you will not go wrong:
    Friends first
    Then marriage,
    Then sex
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    May 14, 2008, 09:12 AM
    You are only 15 (according to another note you posted). NO ONE should engage in sexual intecourse unless they are ready to have a child. For a 15-17 yr old boy, going without for 3 months is not that big a deal. But the key is if he is pressuring you then don't succumb. The more he pressures, the more it shows he cares more about sex than you.

    You should never do anything you are not 100% comfortable with. And even then you have to weigh the consequences.
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    May 14, 2008, 09:56 AM
    Think about how important he is to you... and think about if he's worth it...
    And make sure it's the RIGHT time...
    But I agree... hes not using you or he wood of left by now...
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    May 14, 2008, 09:59 AM
    I remember being 15. I was so horny lol. If I could have persuaded a girl to have sex with me I would have done it. Hint: maybe you want to say no to him unless you really want it as well.
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