First: Ignore what you friend said. Might not be true, he might be trying to get at you, might have been mis-conveyed. Never listen to what was hear "through the grapevine".
Second: If he doesn't want to reply to your texts or phone calls -- stop texting and calling him. He broke up with you, chasing him will only make things worse.
Third: Since you guys broke up, you need to understand that he is obviously not he same person you thought he was. I'm sure he did care for you, but feelings have changed and you two aren't together anymore. You need to try to keep yourself busy - there's a sticky at the top of the main page for things to try to do. Check that out.
Finally: Don't think too much about what he said, did, looked like, etc right before you broke up. None of that matters and chances are your WAY overthinking it. If you look at a few of the other posts around here, almost ALL of our ex's said things just like what you heard before they dumped us. None of that matters - you need to keep your ex, and everything associated with him, out of your head.
See your friends - but don't talk about him. Do something you like to do. Change up your daily routine, go for a run, start working out, go see a movie (comedy's are good) -
ANYTHING but hanging around by yourself, or with your friends focusing on him.
Your in control of what happens next - don't let him take that from you.
(BTW, here's that sticky I was talking about
:
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...kup-78597.html)