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    Apr 16, 2008, 06:39 PM
    My exboyfriend
    I recently got intouch with my boyfriend after 3years and he asked if I'm single and I asked him too. Were both still single and he said he still feels for me and loves me I told him the same, as I love him too. But then when he asked me to meet him I said no because I'm not sure what his motive is, then he said he doesn't want a relation ship but he loves me. When I asked if he has a girlfriend he replied 'yes and that's u'.

    I don't know what to do, I still feel for him... I thought id try to find out if he really likes me or whether he's just lying... so I told him I'm with someone and I've moved on, since then he got very jealous and kept persuading me. I didn't listen to him and now he hasn't come online for 3 days. I think I've really hurt him... but I'm not sure what he wants. And I don't know whether I should contact him or should I not bother... but I am concerned.

    Please help me, thanks
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    Apr 16, 2008, 06:54 PM
    Don't care about what he eagerly or sincerely say to to, but care about what he does for you. Love has action. Love is not on internet and in letters.
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    Apr 16, 2008, 07:02 PM
    If he was so in love with you and you with him, why the 3 year break?
    He does not want a relationship but he loves you? Please!
    He thought he would try out some old stuff, get in your pants.
    Take this as a good thing. You did not need to go back there.
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    Apr 16, 2008, 08:20 PM
    As you said you do not know his motive,so do what you do as usual,do not pay special attention to him! If he really wants you,you will know!
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    Apr 16, 2008, 08:37 PM
    Whatever happened to just asking a person what they mean by something?
    But since he is no longer talking to you, my guess is he has decided to leave you alone for another 3 years. Why did you two break up in the first place?
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    Apr 17, 2008, 03:07 AM
    I recently got intouch with my boyfriend after 3years
    For every action, there is a complete, and opposite reaction. You open up this can of worms, got your answer, and now must close the can again. What did you expect after 3 years. He thought you were offering yourself to him, and now your confused? He seemed pretty clear to me. Leave him alone, and that will end the confusion.
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