[Yours To Forget]

Okay. So I have this friend, I have lived next to her all my life, but when I went away for school we kind of lost touch. I'm in university now, and she's just finishing up her last year of high school. She's always been a great student, not a big partier, she's never had a boyfriend, and still doesn't... but for the past year she has been hanging out with these two guys who are a year younger then her. The three of them are best friends, they share the same other friends, go to movies, blah blah blah. But, when they're hanging out alone, the play a game, and they call it dare. First it started of just daring each other to kiss one another, small stupid stuff, but now I found out that they're going to a whole new level. They park in random parking lots and on dares, my friend gives these guys blow jobs, hand jobs, lets them touch her... and she says it's all in fun, that she doesn't feel used or anything, because they do stuff to her too. It's been going on for months now, and I can't seem to convince her how wrong it is, and how she's missing out on all the private, personal, intimate stuff that is suppose to happen with your first boyfriend. She also recently went on spring break, got wasted, and let randoms do things to her at a club. I feel like she's losing control and soon she's going to do something she's really going to regret and I'm not sure how to talk to her, or what more I can say. Any advice would be super.

[O_Troubles]

Tell her parents, I know low blow but she could get aids. She needs to see a doctor and gtet tested for std's and pregnencys. I mean I get she's old enough to deicde what she does to a point but I'm worried this girl is going to get raped and not care... she has to understand she doesn't have to do these things. Did anything happened like her parents divorceing or anything? Talk to her parents or make her call a local teen phone line. She needs to know what she's getting herself into when she's that annonimus about sex