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    Sandman1955 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Apr 9, 2008, 02:41 PM
    In a relationship, both in love with the same person
    A year ago, my gay partner of 30 years fell in love with someone else. After the initial shock of finding this out, I met the new guy and fell head-over-heels in love with him. SO, now the 'other' man says he's wants to be naked with ME, but not my partner who's quite a bit older than either of us.
    I'm torn - what do I do?:confused:
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    Apr 9, 2008, 02:52 PM
    Hun you've bin with your partner 30years and your going to chuck it away for sex because that's all it'll probably be

    Don't be stupid
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    Apr 9, 2008, 03:32 PM
    Run from both of them. There is nothing about this situation that is healthy for you. It sounds like a play for revenge or to see what he had that you didn't. This will tear you down, not build you up.
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    Apr 9, 2008, 07:03 PM
    Must have been pretty boring if you needed a third person to liven up this relationship. What did you think would happen. Sooner or later?
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    Apr 9, 2008, 07:09 PM
    Their must be something still their or you wouldn't still be together so try and work thing's out talk about were you both think it went down hill and try and save your relationship 30 years is along time don't chuck it away
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    Apr 11, 2008, 05:31 PM
    How many love triangles that you know of, work out?
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