[skippy70]

I am a lesbian and been together with my girlfriend for about 6 months. At the beginning we had sex every other day but counting form this day, it has been 2.5 months, there was actually sexual interaction. When I hint, I am regarded a pushy. Supposedly she is trying to get over her last relationship... but I am starting to wonder if this is the real reason. Thousands of reasons float through my head. She tells me over and over she loves me... a little too much... but are these her true feeling or an easy way out. I from my part LOVE her... Any insight, is welcome.

Thank you.

Skipper

[2008chrissy]

What was the reasoning behind stating her loving you... "a little too much"... in your post?
Is it that you think she is obsessing about being with you and is heads over heels, always telling you she loves you? Or that you just aren't sure if you believe her when she says it. Sometimes people in relationships get into a slump, even at the beginning of a relationship. It may have nothing to do with you. Maybe she is dealing with a personal matter, stress on the job, family concern... I see you said "when I hint, she regards that as pushy." Sitting down and actually having a woman to woman deep & honest conversation with her will do you much better than just hinting around at sex. You both need to have open and honest communication, or else sex won't be the only thing that drive a stake between you.

[hollylovesbrandon]

Sounds like you guys are in a rut. Get dressed up and go out on the town. Have a nice dinner and then "dress up" for each other when you get home.

[Choux]

Two and a half months?

My opinion is that she is stringing you along. All the protestations of how much she loves you are simply to manipulate you because she wants you around for some reason... are you paying the rent or providing money??

A little grandmotherly advice:::: NEVER date anyone on the rebound from a break up... time needs to pass.