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    iluvelmo30 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Mar 9, 2008, 05:47 PM
    Why Can't I Get Pregnant?
    I am 18 years old I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and 4 months. We both want to have a family but every time we try we always fail. " is there something wrong with my body?" or is there something wrong with my boyfriend? Every time I think I'm pregnant I take a pregnancy test and I'm not pregnant. " what is the problem?
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    Mar 9, 2008, 07:39 PM
    Your really to young for ababy their a lot of hard work you no their a 24hour job 7days aweek 365days ayear and you can't have time off even when your sick.
    Do you have money to support ababy? They cost a lot of money it was 2000euro for everythin I needed for my eldest,and baby's grow so fast and need new clothes every few weeks,nappies cost a lot as well then theirs toys
    How are you going to cope on 1 income?? If you go back to work you'll have to pay for childcare that's not cheap either

    I've got 2 myeldest is 2 and my youngest is 4 n ahalf months I'm 24 its really hard work being asingle parent,yeah I've got aboyfriend but we don't live together and their not his kis but when he's hear he helps out but its still hard work with 2 of us

    What happens if you break up?? 2years isn't that long
    Or he loses his job ?
    How will you support your baby then?

    Baby's arnt just for xmas you no their for life
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    Mar 9, 2008, 07:40 PM
    If you want us to give suggestions on why you're not knocked up yet, you need to be a little more specific. How long have you been trying? How often do you have sex? Do you know your cycle well enough to know when you ovulate? (Its not usually on day 14 like most people think)
    And just a word of advice, you might want to get to know your boyfriend a little bit more before you start a family. You are 18... you have plenty of time before you need to be rushing into such a HUGE commitment of having children. Having a baby is not all fun and games, it is a ton of work. It's the type of thing that you really need to think about before getting into. Also make sure you are in a stable relationship. Maybe even think about marriage?.

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