[N0help4u]

TFor me it doesn't makes unless and until u love them both Equally and respect both of them.yes i know my happiness of being loved ny two men is limited and short lived.and it limits to by husbands knowlege.But it is love in which can't be helped.At times i feel tht wht i am doing is wrong.infact very wrong but when i look itno my husband's eyes i see tht there is no change in my love for him.it is too incerasing day by day,The moment my husband get to knw all this i will try to convince him.if he doesn't i will obey to wht he will say to me.cuz its me who is wrong.and as far as this other man is concerned i am nt having the only bed relation with him.there is something in him which is keeping me stick to him.Some qualities some ways which i found in him and still i hv to discover alot in him.

Seems that the only way you are going to see what is wrong with this picture is when you tell your husband OR when he happens to find out.

[rodandy12]

...and as far as this other man is concerned i am nt having the only bed relation with him.there is something in him which is keeping me stick to him.Some qualities some ways which i found in him and still i hv to discover alot in him.Again i woulkd like to THANK U ALL

You might try to decide if the qualities you are discovering in the other man are his or if you are discovering things in him that you need. If that is the case, you might try finding ways to get those things from hubby.