Originally Posted by
starfirefly
i have been having trouble getting my breastmilk to come back.... it wouldnt come when i had him so i had to feed him formula...but the formula makes him so sick so i have been trying to get my milk to flow so i can give him the best...but when i pump or feed him straight there is only about 1 ounce of milk and hes constantly hungry...does anyone know a way to help get it flowing better?
How often are you pumping or putting him to the breast? To establish or re-establish breastfeeding it helps tremendously to do it very often. Even though he may be having formula right now, you will find it helpful to pump, or put him to the breast, every two hours... as if you were starting from the beginning. Frequency is key to building supply... even with other aids, such as fenugreek, red raspberry leaf tea, mother's milk, etc. they help boost supply along with the frequent feeds.
Pumping doesn't always work well for some women, and has little bearing on what you are producing. Better option, when possible, is to put him to the breast himself. Babies usually are much better at moving the milk than a pump will be.
You may have to hand express a bit first and have a little bit on the nipple to get him to latch on. Try massaging the breast prior to the feed... or slight pumping... a warm, wet washcloth to the breast as well might help. All of these are to elicit let down so he doesn't have to work as hard at the breast to get the milk flowing.
Continue to massage gently around the breast once in awhile as he is on... helps to move the milk but gently enough so as not to detach him.
Breastfed babies will eat very often... the milk is more easily digested... so expect him to eat more while breastfeeding, at least in the beginning, then he does when he has formula. Watch for any hunger cues... sucking on fingers, smacking lips, tongue thrusting, becoming more animated... put him to the breast when you see these behaviors. It may be even more often than every 2 hours sometimes... go with his cues if he shows he may be hungry sooner. Easier to get him to latch this way then when he is very upset. Crying is the last sign of hunger. If you need to, satisfy the initial hunger with a bit of formula or expressed breastmilk, and then put him to the breast. Try to transition from less bottle time to more time at the breast. If he already latches pretty well, consider skipping the bottle and go just with the breast now and feed when he shows he is hungry. He will space out his feedings once things get going for awhile.
You may feel like you are wearing him for a couple of weeks... that is OK! If you can have a "nurse-in", a couple of days (maybe a weekend?) where you do pretty much nothing else but breastfeed, you will likely see a difference in your supply.