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    kitten94515 Posts: 115, Reputation: 4
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    Mar 4, 2008, 06:19 PM
    Best friend dating my exbf
    Okay so my FIRST boyfriend that is mentioned in my other posts, okay I broke up with him and my best friend is a slut... okay so he told me he still liked me and I don't want to get back with him. But he was sad and my best friend like jumped on him and their nasty they went too far and him being my first boyfriend she's now with my first boyfriend.

    My first boyfriend dating my best friend.

    But I don't like him anymore. What is this feeling?
    And its not jealousy I don't think.
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    Mar 4, 2008, 11:38 PM
    Probably betrayal. That's what I would feel. Best friends are not supposed to hook up with ex's unless you say that it is OK. And by OK I mean you have no hard feelings what so ever. Which is clearly not the case. And your friend should have seen that. Bad friend...
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    Mar 4, 2008, 11:46 PM
    I hope the feeling is disgust and you're looking for a new boy friend AND a new best friend.
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    Mar 5, 2008, 12:04 AM
    I agree with everyone else.. It seems like betrayal. But personally I think dating a friends ex is one of the worst things you can do to a person.
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    Mar 5, 2008, 12:13 AM
    I don't think your real friend would do something like that.. I agree with the betrayal cause I would feel like that..
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    Mar 5, 2008, 08:00 AM
    I don't know.
    Should I be mad at her?
    And I can't just stop being her friend. I've been her best friend since third grade... /: idontknow.
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    Mar 5, 2008, 10:40 AM
    I agree with the above posters, sweetie. You're feeling betrayed. I'm sorry that you are having to deal with this... and I'm sorry that your best friend has betrayed you like this.

    If you decide to continue being her friend, you are being the bigger person and I commend you for that. Although, I do think that you should learn from this and remember it for later. This is a character flaw in your friend. It's good that you recognize it.

    Have you talked to her about it? I mean, really asked her why she did it? Does she know that its hurt you? You're taking the higher road in all of this, but remember that your feelings matter too.

    I'm sure you'll be able to work this out - but don't get back with this boy... he knows she's your best friend and didn't care about your feelings when he "went too far" with your friend... that shows a sad, tragic lack of character on his part...

    Stick with your friend if you choose, but don't give this guy the keys to your heart again.

    Keep your chin up, hon. :)
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    Mar 5, 2008, 11:07 AM
    Thank you so much.
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    Mar 6, 2008, 01:30 PM
    Okay if it was your true friend then she would have never done that. That is like one of the worst things you can do... I mean like is the girl code. Don't ever talk to him again
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