[-i-love-my-boyfriend]

Me and my boyfriend have been together since August, and were in a long distance relationship. He lives in england and I'm form ireland.. but we see each other for two weeks every month. We cheated on each other the first month which we told each other about and we broke up for a month.. we got back together in December and swore we would have an honest relationship, but last weekend when I was visiting him in england he cheated on me at a party and I only found out.. he didn't even tell me himself. I signed into his msn messing and some girl came on saying "did you have fun on sat ;)" she told me everything.. he admitted it but said he would never do it again. It was a mistake. :confused: should I trust him.. I really love him though

[talaniman]

Love without trust, not a healthy relationship. He has lied and cheated, not healthy for a caring relationship. You've already tried again, and he still cheated. If you want more proof, take him back, and he will cheat again, or you will always be looking for him to. Be single a while, and let him stew in his own juice, while you get your heart, and mind together, to make a good decision, on how best to love yourself, more than you love him.

[-i-love-my-boyfriend]

But I already took him back.. he made me feel so guilty. But ever since I found out he cheated he has been staying in, not drinking, not going out wit his mates.

[talaniman]

We will have to see, how long this change for the better, lasts, but he cheated, and made you feel guilty, that manipulation at its best, and considering the distance, not good, unless one of you is going to move. How do you know he has changed, if your not there to see it first hand?