[wickedwelsh]

I've just recently met a girl just over a week ago now!
We've been spending a lot of time together over the last week and its been great! And now I'm falling for her big time! But just last night she tells me she's not ready for a relation ship! I was going to go up and see her tonight at her place of work as I usually do! And she said I wouldn't bother to me! So what am I supposed to do now that I've got all these feelings for her? And how do I tell her and show her?
Ps! Thaks for any advice!

[life1973happened]

Good evening wickedwelsh...
Rejection at any level, or any point in a relationship, can hurt and sting a bit. The good news here is that you've only known the girl a week. Out of that week, you've, 'begun to fall in love with her' So lets give that 3 full days of being in love, out of the 7. I'm being conservative, so if you think it's more like 2 let me know.

So 2/3 days invested into falling in love with this girl, who now says she is not interested. My advice is simply this; take all of the bottled up feelings you have, walk into the woods and just scream. I mean get it all out, scream at the top of your lungs for a good 10/15 minutes.

Then walk back home, climb into bed and sleep it off. Tomorrow when you wake up to head back to school things will look a whole lot different.

[nimahaha]

Don't worry ,everything is goning to all right

[rockerchick26]

I think she may have sensed that you were falling hard fast and it might have scared her. I think all you can do is tell her you like her and would like to continue seeing her, but you understand she needs her space and you respect that. After that lay low--give her the freedom she wants. Don't call or visit her. If she is interested in you, she will contact you. In the mean time date and have fun. Don't wait around for a girl you just met. If she calls great, if not, move on!