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    darkbrotha00 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Feb 6, 2008, 07:05 PM
    She's pregnant and not speaking to me
    Me and my girlfriend have been together for 3 months. She is a wonderful, smart, and good hearted. We hit it off wonderfully. We go together so well. Everything was great! I have never met a woman like her. I was about to move in with her when we found out she was pregnant . The news of her being pregnant understandable freaked her out. It did me too. It has disrupted plans and things the she had set out to accomplish. Since then she told me that we should slow things down. Still told me she felt very strongly towards me and that she cares. But now she is saying that she needs to be alone to sort things out. I haven't talked to her in 3 days and it is driving me crazy. I miss her. What should I do? I fear she will start to resent me and not want to be with me anymore
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    Feb 6, 2008, 07:12 PM
    Tell her exactly what you just said guys can never get their emotions out rite just tell her the truth I promise it will workout.
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    Feb 6, 2008, 07:14 PM
    Give her some space for a few more days if that's what she says she needs. Getting pregnant is a huge shock to some people and they need time to gather their thoughts.
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    Feb 8, 2008, 10:15 AM
    Do as she says, and leave her alone to contemplate things, in her own time. 3 months is not a long time to know each other, and a lot has happened, so go about your business, and she will contact you, when she has sorted through this. Be patient, and don't push.

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