[nnicknack]

I was in a relationship with 'Mr. Wonderful' for about 7 years. We fell for each other hard & fast. We moved in with one another within one month and he proposed marriage within 6 months (but I wasn't ready for that). He was/is hands down everything I've ever wanted in a man.
I quit some jobs and made some poor financial choices which a)was not the habit of the woman he fell in love with and b) caused resentment and trouble between us.
I left him a few times because I felt that I had fallen short of the goddess he fell for. I always came right back though.
We have officially been apart for one year. We still go to lunch together and call one another on the phone. I'm single and he's in a romantic relationship he labels as not serious.
I have worked on my - issues and I miss him soooooo much. How do I get him back? What are my chances of getting him back?

[ihatewestseneca]

I'm pretty sure there's only way to find out... tell him how you feel. If he keeps telling you that his relationship isn't serious (maybe it is) he may be leaving the door open for you. Instead of lunch, take him to dinner, tell him how you feel, sure you may be putting yourself out there and you may not be happy with his reply, but I'm pretty sure that's the only way you're going to know if he feels the same way as you.

[TrueFaith]

First off never think your any less to your partner. He feel for you for good reasons. Don't build him up to be something he isn't.

And talk with him and try and work it out. And don't let your insecuer hang ups destroy your relationships

Good luck :)

[talaniman]

You want him back, tell him that.

[friend4u178]

I would just let him know how you feel. Then you put the ball in his court. If he doesn't want to play at least you can get on with your life rather than hanging on with false hope.

[yeye82]

Does he know how you feel? Being together 7 years doesn't mean that he knows exactly how you feel especially in this situation. If you have decided what you want, go talk to him, and let him decide.