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Ayo its dayum · Jan 28, 2008, 03:13 PM

My boyfriend decided to text me and tell me we needed a break. He promised me we would get back together. He said he keeps thinking about the past and stupid stuff. He said I was his everything and that we would be back together real soon. His ex has kept bothering him.. and now we talk but I texted him last night and said "what are you doing" and she texted me back on his phone pretending to be him and said her. And she also said I am with my girlfriend leave us alone! But I know she had his phone because I know he isn't like that and doesn't have one mean bone in his body. So she pretended to be back together with him. I am just wondering what I should do.. I want to text him, but I am trying to give it a break and try not to over react about the situation. Then out of no where my ex texted me saying I want you back. And now I am more confuesed than ever.. if I go back with my ex he cheated on me.. but I REALLY like the new guy I was just with. What do you think I should do?? & what do I do about the new guy?

p.s. guys could you awnser this.. what does a "break" mean to you?

Thanks for the help! :)

victoriarose · Jan 28, 2008, 03:22 PM

Originally Posted by Ayo its dayum

My boyfriend decided to text me and tell me we needed a break. he promised me we would get back together. he said he keeps thinking about the past and stupid stuff. he said i was his everything and that we would be back together real soon. his ex has kept bothering him.. and now we talk but i texted him last night and said "what are you doing" and she texted me back on his phone pretending to be him and said her. and she also said i am with my gf leave us alone! but i know she had his phone because i know he isn't like that and doesn't have one mean bone in his body. so she pretended to be back together with him. i am just wondering what i should do.. i want to text him, but i am trying to give it a break and try not to over react about the situation. then out of no where my ex texted me saying i want you back. and now i am more confuesed than ever.. if i go back with my ex he cheated on me.. but i REALLY like the new guy i was just with. what do you think i should do??? & what do i do about the new guy??

p.s. guys could you awnser this.. what does a "break" mean to you?

thanks for the help!! :)

I think that you should go with the new guy, because you don't know how many times your ex will do this to you.. He said he wanted a break then why did he go right to his ex.. I think he is confused about what he wants, and that's not fair to you.. I went threw the same thing.. Well keep your head up..

Rachel005 · Jan 21, 2009, 08:30 PM

Honestly what was he doing with his ex girlfriend anyway.
Me and my boyfriend had talked about a break before and hanging out with ex girlfriends wasn't in it at all.
And your ex texting you that he want's you, he cheated on you once a cheater will always be a cheater I believe cause if he has the heart to do it once why not a second time.

A break isn't nessisaraly a break up.
A break with me and my boyfriend is like time to ourselves to think about things that are hurting our relationsihp and how we can fix them. A break ussually consist of 2-3 days from my point of veiw.
He shouldn't be hanging with his ex and expessially when did she have time to text you with his phone when he wasn't around.

NewYork123 · Jan 21, 2009, 10:10 PM

His definition of "break" is wanting to hook up with the ex for a few days. My definition of a break doesn't really have a time limit but definitely it would be a short time.. it means that maybe you guys are fighting too much or that things are getting to be too much and you need your single time. If my boyfriend messed around with someone on a break I would feel as though it was cheating too.. GO FOR THE NEW GUY!! And if it doesn't work out with the new guy, don't go back to the old guy!