Ok from what I have read she is a 46 year old woman, meaning that you are a mature male around the same age. Therefore old enough to make her own decisions and judgments about people. Also chances are living in a small town she has probably already heard about or knows what her current other is or was involved in. If she still chooses to be with him, and knowing about how you feel about her, she probably does not know how to tell you that she is not interested in you, or that she is really already in love with the other! That is only my opinion. Also if you do really care about her and her safety, then you need to ask her to meet you without him, somewhere, and just be truthfull with her. If she listens and thanks you for the information, you will feel a huge burden off your shoulders knowing that you have told her. If she does not believe you, then PRAY for her, that God will protect her and have his hand upon her. But really the dicision is hers of what to do after you have told her, and that you were being a true friend to her and watching out for her. She will see it one day, If not than it was not meant to be for the two of you to be together, Just remember that GOD holds the key to every soul and mind, He is in control of what happens, esspecially if you tell her.
Hope this of some help and giudance.
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