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    pcolamomof2 Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Jan 12, 2006, 10:23 AM
    How long did you wait?
    Hi all! My divorce was only final a year ago, but I was separated for 3 years before that... just out of curiosity.. if any of you have remarried, how long did you wait? Im considering getting married again, and I do uderstand that the time in between is different for everyone, Im just curious. Ive heard everything from 2 months to "never again!" LOL!
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    Jan 12, 2006, 10:32 AM
    Waiting
    This is a personal choice you will have to make. Me personally, its was over 2 years before I found someone. Your choice will have to be someone you care for and that the other will care for you. I live by the 50/50, it's a partnership and all must be flexible in making decisions. Just my thoughts.:)
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    Jan 12, 2006, 11:03 AM
    How long wait?
    Hi,
    Personally, I was divorced after 7 yrs of marriage, then remarried... been 28 yrs now, to a wonderful woman.
    It took me several months before I actually started "dating", after the initial separation, then took me a year to tell her I love her, then another year to get married again.
    Two years for me. (Actually, three years from the time I was separated). In VA, one has to wait a year before the divorce is final... or was at that time.
    Best of luck.
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    Jan 12, 2006, 01:39 PM
    Just follow your heart and don't fight your feelings. I have lost someone because I fought mine. I won't fight them again unless that person is wrong for me.

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