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neriv · Jan 16, 2008, 12:50 PM

I meet LU December 06! We got hooked up fast... our relationship lasted until July 07 I found out he cheated on me with HIS X girlfriend! And that s not all he ended up moving back with her he is 15 yr older than me!! At the time I taught he did it because I Wasn't stable at All! I taught she could offer him more than I could.. I was not working and only going to school. I ended up telling him to stay with her because I didn't want nothing with him I felt horrible... if confronted my parents over him I almost got kicked out of my house because my parents disagree with our relationship because he is older than me! LU still called me after I told him not to.. I ended calling his new lady to tel her that he was calling me.. LU was a head security of the school there was not suppose to be NO Relationships with staff members.. his new lady ended up finding out that I went to school there she called HR on me we both got kicked out!! I hated her for what she did to me.. the school ended up doing a investigation they found out that I had nothing to do with it.. because LU accuse ME of calling HR.. I DID'NT on nov 07 I got a letter from the main school regional office saying I was not guilty I send LU a copy. That same week LU and his new lady broke up... BECAUSE IT WAS HIS X THAT DID IT!! I miss him
I MISS HIM I JUST NEED ADVICE
ANY Thanks

Craig80 · Jan 16, 2008, 04:39 PM

Hm... wow, what a mess.
Why would you want him back when he cheated on you like that?

My advice is promptly to stay in school, continue getting education
And if you still feel lonely, try to date some guys closer to your age who seem nice.

Not saying that age matters though, but stay away from this guy because he isn't to be trusted as he cheated on you
And he most likely, as a member of the school staff, knew that it was forbidden to have a relationship with a student.

raggablue · Jan 16, 2008, 07:22 PM

Yeah craigs right, if you get back together you'll end up not trusting him and always worrying about what he's doing. Not worth it no matter how much you used to love him

Homegirl 50 · Jan 16, 2008, 09:28 PM

How old is this guy? Are you a minor and he an adult? The fact that he would mess with you, knowing it is against school policy tells you he is not a credible person. He was probably having fun with you until he could get back with his old girl friend.
Be glad this man is gone. Find someone closer to you in age.