[Zell]

Ok.
I'm not quite sure what's wrong with me or even why I'm writing this lol. I'm 20 years old recently I've been feeling more and more presured by life. Things like getting my own place, getting a new job, earning lots of money, finding a GF etc etc
And its really starting to get me down now, I'm waking up every morning with no motivation what so ever! I been going out as much as possible with my friends and stuff but its weird its like every morning I'm a different me... if that makes sense. I'm starting to feel tired of life, and I don't want that, but I've been through so much and I've always pretty much been alone as well, I've never had a long term relationship.
Its all starting to take its toll on me and its getting to the point where I just don't see a way out.
Is there anything I can do or anything that I can look for in life to motivate me?? I'm not a confident guy either when it comes to women so finding a GF is hard for me. So I'm looking for something that will help that I can do alone, which is what I'm used to...

Thanks for reading this =)

[whiteladybug2002]

ARe you in college? Do you work?

[Zell]

I'm not at college at the moment, I'm still saving up for it, its another thing on my long list of worries. And I work only part time on weekends.

[N0help4u]

Get out and do things. Go places try to find some things that interest you or even if they don't
Interest you. Festivals are great for a good mood just because you are getting out and a change of pace. Going to a lake is relaxing and you can sit and think about life in general.
Think of all your interests and study up on them. Try thinking of what you would like to do most in life and set goals and work toward it. You might also have vitamin deficiencies that
Can make your mood feel like this.

[whiteladybug2002]

20 is a tough age, your not a teenager anymore and you feel as if the weigh of the world is on you! You and everyone else thinks that you should have it all figured out by now, but it doesn't always happen that way. I understand your stuggles and DON'T BE SO HARD ON YOURSELF!

Be young and 20 yrs old! Don't feel pressured into gettting into a relationship or finding your life long career. Now is a good time to start figuring it out, but don't worry about getting all the answers NOW.

I am 29 yrs old and I will say that I didn't know much of myself until I was 23 and at 25 I decided what I wanted to do in school.

Be patient with yourself. Yes, it is good to push yourself, but make sure you are pushing for the right purposes and the right person, you.

Good Luck and God Loves You!