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    Jan 13, 2008, 03:38 PM
    Feeling lonely, or just missing her
    As I have said before, I broke up with my ex back in July, we were going out fore a year and a half, I broke up with her because her family is crazy(litteraly), we were to sexual active and I just felt bored and like I deserved someone better than her, as it has been 7 months, not a single girlfriend since her, about a month after we broke up, I started to feel lonely, like a part of me was missing, I just blew it off thinking I just needed to find a new girlfriend and the feeling would go away, and since I haven't had a girlfriend since her, I have had the feeling ever since then

    So am I just feeling lonely and unloved, or do I miss her
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    Jan 13, 2008, 04:20 PM
    so am I just feeling lonely and unloved, or do I miss her
    Probably both. Cheer up an get busy doing what you like to do, get out among people that are having fun. And join them. You don't need a female for fun and happiness, and you can't have one, if your not out there to see, and choose.
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    Jan 13, 2008, 04:22 PM
    I do get out and do things, but its when I am lying in bed, or just sitting around, is when I get the feeling
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    Jan 13, 2008, 05:26 PM
    Yep, whenever we slow down, or stop, we still get those old feelings, and that will get better with time, as our life gets other things to think about.
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    Jan 13, 2008, 05:27 PM
    But its been like 7 months, isn't that long enough

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