[younglady13]

There this guy at school and girls love him people said I liked him I had no idea who he is and when I saw him I said he's hideous and two run over and to giggle point at me and say something later they say they told him I said he's hot and wanted his phone number how can I tell him I didn't say that and think he's ugly?? :confused:

[Fr_Chuck]

To each their own, people have various tastes.

[kp2171]

Look, drama is dumb.

So you get yourself together, you walk up to him, you tell him that those girls were being dumb. You aren't interested. Sorry.

You do not tell him you think he's hideous. That's rude and awful, even if you think its true. Its not his fault you don't like him. Don't blame him for the idiot girls noise.

Look... I know its hard to be that forward. I've been there when younger. Here's the secret to happiness...

It doesn't mean a damn thing. What those girls say won't mean anything in a year. They are being idiots. Who cares.

The sooner you learn to relax, chill about it all, and just let the noise wash away, the better. Really. In a few years all the drama will mean ABSOLUTELY nada.

Just don't take it out on the guy. He might like you. So what? Is that a crime? Don't lay into him cause you don't find him attractive. He isn't the one who is the problem.

[oneguyinohio]

You can tell him you didn't say it, and wanted to tell him yourself, so there would be no confusion over the other girl's petty little joke. You don't have to tell him what you think of his looks. That would be rude.

Being honest but polite is the best policy. Have you heard the story about the ugly duckling that turned into a beautiful swan?

Don't treat anybody bad based on looks. Beauty is only skin deep, but ugly personalities go all the way to the bone... and are much longer remembered.

[younglady13]

She asked him if he liked me also and he said I'm hideous

[oneguyinohio]

Did you hear that or was it the friends telling you? Either way, you don't have to engage in the same insults.

[younglady13]

I heard him say it and its not him I plan on insulting it's the two girls that started it

[oneguyinohio]

"how can i tell him i didnt say that and think hes ugly???"

I am glad that you don't plan to insult him. You could still tell him that you didn't say it and wish the other girls wouldn't be so inconsiderate by making their immature jokes at other people's expense.
Tell him that you sure would not need girls like that to do your talking for you.

[younglady13]

"how can i tell him i didnt say that and think hes ugly???"

I am glad that you don't plan to insult him. You could still tell him that you didn't say it and wish the other girls wouldn't be so inconsiderate by making their immature jokes at other people's expense.
Tell him that you sure would not need girls like that to do your talking for you.

Yeah right no way I ever say that the only way excepted is if you insult people

[volta-rewind]

Everybody has their own opinion.
Don't pay attenyion to them,
Focus on the more important things in your life.

:)