Hi folks, I need some advice myself now and hope you can help me.
Here's the story:
I usually have a 'gut feeling' about people, and knew that my daughters husband was not the right one for her when I was told they were going to get married, but kept in mind that children must make their own mistakes. Now, after seven years and my daughter wanting children and he being wishy-washy about it - thank goodness they don't have one, as they've been separated since Dec 2004.
Anyway, she met this young man in the Air Force, who she was selling her car to, and they automatically clicked and they live together now (by the way, my gut-feeling said YES about this young man)- he's still married too (she's also in the Air Force), but also separated for a year, and they have a son who she is starting to use as a weapon. She is due to deliver an
artificially inseminated child (which he did not agree to and they were separated) but threatened him not to tell anyone that the child is not from him (which makes him look like the rear end of a donkey). Unfortunately they are both assigned at the same Air Base currently, but she's due to leave toward the end of this year. Anyway, he was not sure he could ever become a father again since he has arthritis and psoriasis, therefore making those 'little swimmers' weak due to the medication he has to take, but they hit the mark, and now my daughter is carrying his child, due in August. Both divorces have been initiated and they will take their time, but this 'lady' (being kind here) plans on putting him on the child's birth certificate, even without his consent, which will probably make him financially responsible for it. I know that the poor baby cannot help what the mother is doing, but doesn't the
not-to-be father have any rights, after proving he's not the father? This woman manipulated him all this time, and is still doing so by threatening him and my daughter further. I was just wondering if any of you can refer me to any legal statutes or advice that will help the wonderful young man not get walked all over by a hateful woman who shows no mercy at this time. The only military legal people I know here specialize in medical malpractice cases and are not familiar with other military or civilian justice issues at the moment, and their library is not that adequate. Most laws, military or civilian should apply somehow here. If any of you know any military legal people you can ask, please would you get some scoop for me. I'd really like to help - naturally because I'm going to be the grandmother, but also because I don't' think he should be responsible for a child that is not his and be used by this manipulative person. So, hoping my
AMHD family will be kind enough to pull resources together to help, and thanks for any assistance in advance,
Anxiously waiting for any help we can get on this, and sorry for being so long-winded, Chery
Desperately need some peace of mind. The 'lady' will probably move to Alaska, so how are the laws there?