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    Jan 9, 2008, 10:10 AM
    Did he even like me? N am I obsessed?
    Hi all, not so long ago I met this guy and we got on great. I mean I really liked him but never actually thought I was good enough for him. We went on our first date a week or so later after meeting which was a total cock up. The meal was great but I so badly messed it by not saying much and not seeming interesed in him or the conversation. Anyway we got back home that night and he sent me a tex 'hours' later, wanting to leave things. I was really gutted but pretented and said yeah that's fine we can leave thing. He asked me again after I said that if I really wanted to leave thing and like an idiot I said yeah. I think he wanted me to say no and I think that's where I went wrong. Never heard from him after that. BUT I can't stop thinking about him. I don't know if I'm obsessed with the guy but I I really really can't stop thinking about him. What can I do?
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    Jan 9, 2008, 11:56 AM
    Call him telling that you wanted to see him again you really like him but you were off that night.
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    Jan 9, 2008, 07:08 PM
    It's hard to determine whether he really liked you. But that doesn't seem to be the issue here.

    What I'm more concerned about is his attitude towards you. One moment, he was saying that he'd rather leave things. The next, he was going back on his reply by asking you if you were sure. Regardless of how much he liked you, are you truly willing to go out with a guy who is going to be so wishy-washy?
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    Jan 9, 2008, 08:24 PM
    Should have just told him the truth, that you are shy and inexperienced and had a good time and are interested in going out again. He was confused by your lack of enthusiasim, and just needed to know how you felt. Next time just be honest. Now call and explain, honestly.Good luck.
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