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    fisk Posts: 147, Reputation: 5
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    Jan 4, 2008, 12:19 PM
    'too dynamic'?
    I'm 21 and never had a serious boyfriend(I never really stayed with a guy for longer than a month and never had sex with anyone). I have always been a busy girl, never had that much free time, and it never bothered me before. But it does now, cause I'm in college and have more free time, and also because practically everyone else I know is in a relationship, and I feel the need to have someone too. Not to be like all the others, but to have someone that close by my side, someone to love. I always get along better with older people and I'm always told I'm more mature for my age (difficult childhood made me grow up early). Also, people say that I'm pretty.

    I once asked a male friend of mine why he wouldn't ask me out if he liked me and he said I was 'way too dynamic and pretty'. And I'm asking myself: am I suppose to change the way I am to find a boyfriend? Why are people so scared of who I am? Will there ever be a guy who will appreciate it and won't run away...

    I know that I will meet someone someday and that it will be great, I believe in that, but I'm sick and tired of waiting. It just seems so easy for some people and too hard for others...
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    Jan 4, 2008, 12:33 PM
    Nope. Never change yourself for anyone... especially for a guy. Of course, if you want to improve yourself (only to benefit you) then that's one thing. But if a guy wants you to be less dynamic/weird/quirky/whatever, forget it.

    I see a lot of girls at school who change themselves for the guy. They become more submissive, pretty, flirty, cutesy, or whatever the guy wants them to be. In the end, the relationship comes to an end and the girl is lost because she's given up so much of herself for the guy.

    Honestly, if you're happy the way you are, stay that way. The guy'll come.
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    Jan 5, 2008, 10:50 PM
    don't change who you are so someone will like you... b.c if you do... they not like you.. they like the other you.. the one that not you...

    and the reason the guys don't ask you out yet.. b.c the right guy not coming along yet... just be paitient.. ^^... if will come... just enjoy life now and do good in classes
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