[luvvsux]

It's been almost a year since my first post and I haven't been on this thing in awhile but I'm starting to run into some problems again so leave a lot of comments cause they always help...

Since the beginning of high school I've been with one main person but we've had 2 serious break-ups and we got past the first one after about 6 months and got back for at least another 5 months until this girl I know kissed him when they were drunk and away on vacation with friends. I still ask myself why this happened to me and its so hard cause me and my boyfriend got a lot closer after those 5 months, toward the end we were fighting a little more so I thought maybe he kissed her out of anger of our last fight? I just want to have an opinion because I never got to know what the reasons behind it was, I found out through my friends. We never talked about the situation, we've just ignored each other the past 6 months again... it's so hard because I miss him and I'm willing to forgive him cause I feel like it might not have been his fault but why couldn't he just appoligized and we could've got past it, did he do it cause he didn't like me...
Sometimes I feel like he's always looking at me in school, or trying to get me jelous, and still has feelings toward me but I'm just waiting for him to appoligize still so we can get together again
Or should it be me to confront him
Or should I just forget about him all together and move on even though I still love him.


Need your help, thanks

[George_1950]

I don't think it ever hurts your cause to be willing to communicate with him. You just don't want to throw yourself at him or appear to be too needy. One try, that's all. If he isn't receptive, then move on.

[talaniman]

A relationship with no communications, is dead to begin with. You've broken up twice, and it didn't work either time, so I suggest you get your own act together, and leave his alone. You both need to grow and learn, but for now grow and learn on your own.