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    oreo630 Posts: 68, Reputation: 2
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    Jan 1, 2008, 05:31 PM
    Why did he say he doesn't like me when he does all this
    Ok this isn't just another does he like me question. Ok it is but help me!

    I want to know if this guy likes me.
    He does a lot of things like teasing and "flirting". We stare at each other a lot. Very often actually, and when we do it's usually for a long time like 5 or 6 seconds. His friends always tease me and my friends and they play around with me, like they call me sexy or cutie or whatever. But the guy I like, he just stands in the background, just watching and looking at ME. Also when his friends ask me questions and stuff, they always run up to him and tell him what I said.

    Ok so from what I have told you, I bet you think he is interested in me, right?
    Well this is why I think he doesn't like me.
    About 3 months ago my friend told him I liked him. His friends kept on telling me that he thought I was cute and that he liked me and stuff. But then one of my guy friends who is on the same basketball team as him, found out and asked the guy I liked if he likes me. The guy I like said no. And today I asked the same boy if the guy I like said he doesn't like me and he said no he doesn't like you. But they don't really talk much anymore. I would really appreciate if you would take your time to answer my question. Thanks!
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    nkychic Posts: 180, Reputation: 70
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    Jan 1, 2008, 09:07 PM
    Why don't we stop dancing around the idea and just go for the plunge. Is it worth overcoming the FOR (fear of rejection) you obviously have? Don't depend on everyone else to tell you whether he likes you, because to be quite frank nobody can answer that except for him. Maybe he isn't interested in you and that's what he's been telling everyone, or maybe he is interested in you and he has the same problem you have FOR. You need to be straight up with him, at least try to talk to him. Do you all have anything in common? Same interest in a sport or band? Strike up a conversation and see what happens. You have two choices. You can sit back and hope that everything you want comes to you, or you can put forth some effort to ensure that this happens. Either way I wish you the best of luck. Let me know how things go.

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