[renee4]

I have never had sex before. However, my boyfriend and I do hook up. He fingers me and I give him hand jobs that is it. Last night we hooked up and he fingered me. Today I have brown discharge in my panties. Could I be pregnant? Or is that unlikely? I am very nervous, and scared. Thank you so very much!

[crystalbivens]

Ummmmmmmmmmmm NO

[J_9]

Honey, how old are you?

Has your mother had the "birds and bees" talk with you?

Have you had sex ed in school?

Do you know how pregnancy happens?

[bekah876]

You must have penetration (penis penetration) in order to get pregnant. A finger will not get you pregnant.

[renee4]

Am 19. Yes, my parents and I have had chats about sex, and other things. However, my boyfriend didn't clean his hands off after he came. Then he fingered me, could I be pregnant? I am just very nervous after seeing brown discharge today, and then I researched it. Most sources say I could be. Also what if he came on my underwear?
Thanks for your post.

[Chantilly Lace]

I was told that dies instantly when it hits 'air'. I have heard however that if a guy cums in his hand & immedietly fingers his partner, she 'could' become pregnant.

It is unlikely but not impossible. Better to ask the experts. :) Hopefully I was of some help though.

Good luck... and be careful.. he might have just had 'dirty fingers' or 'dirt under his nails'... causing infection. Always be safe no matter what you're doing! :)

[Baby-_-Girl-_-19]

You can't get pregnant if you don't have sex. Brown discharge is normal... you're probably just about to start your period.

[renee4]

But I just finished my period December 14th, I am in mid-cycle now. So how could I possibly be starting me period? It only happened once though, no more. Is it really true that once sperm hits air it dies? Since I researched I have been urinating a lot. Is this because I am thinking about this way too much, and just stressed? Thanks for writing back.

[Baby-_-Girl-_-19]

Brown Discharge, an also occur at the end of your period, it's the "old stuff" cleaning its self out of your body. My mom told me it tends to be worse if you use a tampon.

[LearningAsIGo]

Sperm does not automatically die once it hits air.
Pregnancy does not occur from a finger.
Sperm put inside the body CAN cause pregnancy but its extremely unlikely.
Brown discharge is "old blood" and usually indicates the beginning or ending of a period. Sometimes it just happens with no real explanation.

I am just very nervous after seeing brown discharge today, and then I researched it. Most sources say I could be.

I don't know what resources but they're wrong or you misunderstood.

Also what if he came on my underwear?

Very unlikely you would become pregnant.
Frequent urination is a pregnancy symptom. However, since this JUST happened, this is not the cause of your problem. IF you were pregnant, you wouldn't feel urination pangs for several weeks.

I'm glad you are trying to learn more about sex but I hope you're realizing the real problem here. You are already engaging in sexual activity BEFORE you learn basic facts about pregnancy, STDs and AIDS.