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Junior Member
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Dec 24, 2007, 09:20 PM
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So I'm dating this guy.
I'm dating this guy that is so sweet and we have so much in common. It's been 8 months now. The problem is I'm not that physically attracted to him. It wasn't a problem at first, but the further we get in our relationship the more of a problem it is becoming. I was thinking about getting his hair cut at a salon, etc but he doesn't have much money. Truthfully it's not that important until we start kissing or something, I just don't feel anything, but I know he does. I think it would work if I was just more physically attracted... thanks for your help
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Jobs & Parenting Expert
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Dec 24, 2007, 09:44 PM
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If you are not physically attracted to him, please keep looking. Staying with him is not only not fair to you, but it's not fair to him.
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Ultra Member
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Dec 24, 2007, 11:08 PM
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So it boils down to just his hair? You could always give a gift certificate to him as a present. Beauty is only skin deep, but ugly goes all the way to the bone. Sounds like you might have your priorities confused. What if you get with the most physically attractive hunk of a man imaginable, then he doesn't treat you right... or worse, what if he suddenly goes bald?
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Full Member
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Dec 24, 2007, 11:35 PM
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Originally Posted by s47hbk
i was thinking about getting his hair cut at a salon, etc but he doesnt have much money.
Are we talking about your dog or a man? If you're thinking about getting him a hair cut then why aren't you the one paying for it?
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New Member
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Dec 25, 2007, 12:20 AM
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If you don't feel anything it's not his looks. Feeling don't come from pysical attraction it's deeper. So please try not to focus on that and look for a new man, the longer you wait the more it hurts both of you.
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Expert
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Dec 25, 2007, 11:35 AM
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If that's how you feel, then why live the lie any longer. Get out, and spare both your feelings.
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