Check out some similar questions!

SWtthng · Dec 14, 2007, 03:02 PM

I would really like to know why men love getting head so much. Some men would rather get head than have sex so I'm just wondering what is it about getting head.

KBC · Dec 14, 2007, 03:24 PM

Servitude,submission to do something with some 'degradation' to it.

Just a thought.

KBC

daughterstaxes · Dec 14, 2007, 03:35 PM

Because it feels so good!

mjl · Dec 14, 2007, 03:46 PM

Not every guy loves head... most guys I know perfer sex rather then head

daughterstaxes · Dec 14, 2007, 03:52 PM

I agree - sexual intercourse is better - but oral sex is also very stimiulating and pleasurable - both giving and receiving.

mjl · Dec 14, 2007, 03:56 PM

Just wondering on the post above... how is oral sex both giving and receiving? How can the girl be getting any stimulation?

Just curious

daughterstaxes · Dec 14, 2007, 04:01 PM

Isn't it obvious - it's giving when the man performs oral sex on his partner. Many men enjoy receiving oral sex from their partner and reciprocating by returning the favor

mjl · Dec 14, 2007, 04:06 PM

Oh... I c

kp2171 · Dec 19, 2007, 11:46 PM

Mixed feelings here...

I've been in a relationship where I never received oral, and desperately wanted it...

Then later in a relationship where I received, for a time, almost only oral, and wound up desperately wanting intercourse...

For me, oral is a completley selfless act... whether its male or woman performing on the other partner... although either can be a nice prep to intercourse.

The sensations are different... as a man, I can say that oral can, if done well, apply more pressure and also be just as lush as intercourse... that said, there is also a loss of contact with the woman's body as experienced in sex.

So... why are men obsessed? It feels awesome. Period. And when we don't get it, it's the thing we know we want for xmas but can't seem to get.

Is it the best sex? Can't answer that. It is unique and it has a proper place in the sexual relationship. I think most healthy sexual relationships don't rely on it and don't deny it.

By the way, do you receive great oral? Only reason I ask is that the women I've been with that were able to get off well orally didn't seem to question the "value" of returning the favor. So is part of the problem that you maybe aren't being satisfied orally?

kp2171 · Dec 20, 2007, 12:17 AM

Originally Posted by Wrestler171

number 1 oral sex can't get a guy hiv.

PLEASE do NOT say can't get hiv by oral!!

The rate of infection is generally lower, but "cant" is NOT true!!

Bad, bad answer.

Primary HIV Infection Associated with Oral Transmission | Factsheets | CDC HIV/AIDS

excon · Dec 20, 2007, 06:02 AM

Hello SW:

Well, a chick has about 5 things going for her when she's giving head: she has her lips, 2 hands, all her fingers, a tongue and her teeth. Chicks who are good, use 'em ALL.

She can't do near as much with her vagina (although some can).

excon

Synnen · Dec 20, 2007, 06:05 AM

And here I always thought it was because they could just lay back and not have to do any work!

jmrags · Dec 20, 2007, 01:24 PM

I don't like oral unless I'm absolutely sure this she is totally into turning me on and enjoys the sensation of having me in her mouth. Actually, I love to go down on her. I love when she is writhing in extassy (sp?), squezzing my ears with her legs, and pulling my hair. It gives me a rush of sexual power over her that I can totally send her to outer space without using the obvious man-object. Yes I enjoy the whole thing and anal (perhaps topics for other blog-streams) but lots of times I love to dive!

Xrayman · Dec 20, 2007, 02:55 PM

Why do girls like receiving oral? Are you for real? Because-IT FEELS REALLY NICE. I would have thought it was obvious.

smoothy · Dec 21, 2007, 01:27 PM

It just feels incredible...

Wife would say the same thing. She loves getting it as much as I do. And Like me she really loves to do it as well.

mjl · Dec 21, 2007, 04:54 PM

Smoothy, you said to me : "Not if you ever actually went out with a women that new what she was doing."
I am a women, so obviously I never dated one. I am married to a man.

talaniman · Dec 22, 2007, 12:12 PM

To just lay there, and feel good, oh yeah!!

prettymulatto · Dec 22, 2007, 02:24 PM

Some men are turned on by women who will submit to them.

ISneezeFunny · Dec 22, 2007, 04:07 PM

Why do men like head so much...

... hahaa

... why do men like beer so much? Why do men like naked women? Why do men like the new murcielago?

... because it

1. feels good
2. tastes great
3. looks sexy
4. you just want to ride it.

... not in that particular order... for any of them.

talaniman · Dec 22, 2007, 04:31 PM

Originally Posted by prettymulatto

Some men are turned on by women who will submit to them.

By KBC, Servitude,submission to do something with some 'degradation' to it.

Confused?? What is submisive or degrading about oral sex, for men or women? Is there something I need to know, or is it you don't like to give head? Pleasuring my partner is one hell of a turn on.