What's going on?
I started dating this guy back in late September. It was kind of a rocky beginning because I had just ended a four-year relationship, but he was very interested in me and was patient while I "figured things out". For the past month or so, we go out at least one day every weekend. He pays to take me to nice places, but lately it seems like I am making all the first moves. I have point-blank told him I like him, but he just smiled and did not say "I like you, too" or anything. When we talk, it could be taken as a conversation between friends - he is also acting pretty reserved physically with me. I am confused. I keep trying to make something happen, but it seems like that only pushes him away. I am 27, he is 25. He has dated older girls, and said it doesn't bother him that I'm older. I just am used to a guy letting me know he is attracted to me, and this guy spends a lot of time with me but does not bring up the next step. He knows I am very interested - what should I do? I don't want to scare him off with a "Where is this going?" conversation, but I want to know where I stand with him so I can figure things out for myself. Thoughts?
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