[ChihuahuaMomma]

I'm scratching my head trying to figure out how you can achieve a masters in four months (!?!?!) with a degree in "Information Engineering Management" (!?!) when it took me ten minutes to read your second posting to figure out what in the world you were trying to spell.

Be with your baby. You don't get this time back. There may be a reason that this opportunity will not work for you right now..and a better one may be waiting down the road.
Everyone here is making on very saliant point: we all sacrifice. We're parents. It's what we do.

It's not taking her four months to get her degree, it's four months from the time her husband is done and she starts, so there is four months where they are both in school and there is no one to care for the child.

I don't agree with you letting your child go to your mother, since your mother isn't HIS mother, you are... IF that makes sense, lol.

I would also like to point out that making fun of her spelling is rude and unnecessary since English is not her first language. I also want to make a point that English being your second language isn't quite the barrier that you are making it out to be. How long have you been in America? My boyfriend has only lived here for two years, and English is his FIFTH language. You would never know talking to him. Because he is educated. I think your issue is solely about the money. If its between your child and the money, please choose your child. There are so many devices available to you including scholarships from America... search Scholarships.com Free College Scholarship Search, Student Loans & College Scholarships also there are grants and loans.