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    Troubled Teenager Posts: 4, Reputation: 1
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    Dec 1, 2007, 01:52 PM
    How can I get my mums trust?
    I'm 14 and I really want my mum to trust me. I've been getting into trouble at school and now am grounded. My mum doesn't like my friends because they smoke and drink and stuff but she doesn't know I do. I just want her trust so I can go out with my friends.
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    Dec 1, 2007, 01:54 PM
    I hope she grounds you for an eternity if you drink and smoke at your age. You don't deserve her trust if you are going to gain it just to go out and drink and smoke.
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    Dec 1, 2007, 01:56 PM
    Well the only way to get trust is to ern it. If all you want to do is go out with your mates and drink and smoke you won't ern it.
    I know it may seem so unfair at the moment but she is only doing it cause she loves you. You need to show her you are a sensible person and not follow in your friends footsteps.
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    Dec 1, 2007, 03:22 PM
    You get her trust by earning it. You will earn it by behaving like someone who can be trusted. Meaning, you let your smoking drugging friends go and you stop doing the same. You show her that you appreciate the fact that she cares about you enough to want the best for you, by understanding that sometimes you're not going to like decisions she makes for you, but you know it is in your best interest.
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    Dec 1, 2007, 04:25 PM
    Well you got to stop doing drugs and if you want a know more cause I did the same and it took me only 1 day to get her trust add me on msnREMOVED


    Mostly what you have to do is stop doing them for a bit when you smoke she can probably smell it on you same goes for the liqour maybe help around the house to
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