Originally Posted by
AustProd6
OK Little History.
I am a Dumpee, Went of the planet with nc (except with my kids) immediately after being dumped 4 1/2 months ago. Were together 18 years (except for the 13 other times she left me. BPD). She has Reached out with texts at times over the last 4 months. I ignored them.
Ok My kids called last night while I was at my GF's Daughters Birthday Party. After 2 Months with my GF I finally told them I had a GF openly.
My Q is. How much sting will my admission be of having a GF be to my female Ex?
How much more sting will it be to find out my GF is 6 years younger than her and everything she isn't?
It sounds like,
how much do you want it to sting?
If not, don't rub it in her face, don't blab on about how much younger she is... just don't bring it up. Never mention it if you can.
And don't let your GF throw it about either. She may not be everything your GF is but, live and let live. Just think about how well you've come off from this.
You have found the girl of your dreams, you know that, you just don't need to let everyone know that! She is texting you probably because she's insecure, she probably doesn't want YOU, but is just unsure about what she's done.
And yes, she'l probably not admit it, but she maybe slightly jealous that you'v landed on your feet.
Remember she was in a relationship for 18yrs too, just because she did the dumping, doesn't mean she has any less feelings. (unless I'm totally wrong and she's a , lol)
To be honest, if you have gone for someone younger (whatever your reason is). She will probably try to justify it by slagging you off, i.e. remarks about a midlife crisis.
She might not, but if your asking how a woman's head works, that's what I, and many other girls I know would think and do.
Im not an expert, but that's what I would think
Hope you don't think I'm a cow for being honest
Does any of it make any sense? Let me know if not, and I'll stop giving people advice lol
Good Luck