How possible

eashley · Nov 25, 2007, 05:38 PM

My boyfriend and I of 4 years have not had sex until the other day when we just slipped it in. It was in for a few seconds. We have done this a few times and to be honest I don't know why we keep doing it if we aren't just going to have sex. Anyway. I have missed my period. I am usually regular. I think he might have put it in when I was most fertile. I do not have tender breasts. I have put on a few pounds. I get dizzy sometimes but my breast do not hurt. Sometimes I feel a little sick but this might all be in my head. I am having back pains, and have felt nauseous a few times and today I could barely eat lunch because I just wasn't hungry and it was Mexican, may favorite meal too. Could I be pregnant. I wouldn't mind. :)

Thank you!!

NowWhat · Nov 25, 2007, 05:43 PM

Well, I am not sure what you mean by "just slipped it in". But, if he was inside you, the pre stuff can get you pregnant.
So... anything is possible. How late are you?
If you are 7 or more days, I would take a test.

jessa1200 · Nov 25, 2007, 05:44 PM

Did he get off? If so I would look into taking a test to be sure. However, if he did not more than likely its all in your head. I have had times where I was so stressed or thought I was pregnant that my period was late. Just try to relax and not think so much about it and if you aren't pregnant it will come in the next few days...

eashley · Nov 25, 2007, 07:56 PM

He didn't go inside of me. What I meant by slipped it in is, we just put his penis in for a few seconds and then took it out. I forgot to mention that I have felt nauseous a few times and today I couldn't eat my favorite meal (Mexican) because I'm just not hungry anymore. Thank you guys

Leedee · Nov 25, 2007, 08:59 PM

You poor sweetie - you sound scared!

My advise is to get a friend or a family member ( your mother if you can) get a test and see - from your symptoms you listed I would say your chances are high!

Let me know how you go!

eashley · Nov 25, 2007, 09:40 PM

OK I don't want to tell my mother yet. Even though I am 21. She just had a baby girl, she's 3 months and my mom isn't done. Ok I just want to write it all out again. I've taken a test, it says negative but I'm late, I've been nauseous, I have knee pains and back pains, I'm not hungry much anymore but my boobs arent' sore which is supposed to be a big sign. I'm not really to scared. I kind of want to have a baby. This man will marry me and I've talked to him about it but we are both thinking that it's not possible because he was only in for seconds and didn't go in me. Still possible?

NowWhat · Nov 26, 2007, 07:32 AM

I am still so confused. Either he was inside you or not. Slipped in? Like just the head on the outside of your stuff?
If he was inside you, even for a second, anything is possible.

As far as the symptoms, a lot of PMS symptons and pregnancy symptoms mirror each other. And a lot of things can cause you to be late. How late are you? If you are more than 7 days late, then take a test. If it's negative and you still don't get your period for another week - go to your doctor.

Just relax.

boo_boo · Nov 26, 2007, 10:05 AM

I agree with NowWhat.. if the bumble bee sits on the flower he can pollenate it , to put it nicely... either re test or go doctors for a blood test , hope it turns out as you hope, and get some advice on birth control if you don't want to worry about this again , take care of you xx

CLARE FROGGATT · Nov 26, 2007, 10:13 AM

Originally Posted by eashley

My boyfriend and I of 4 years have not had sex until the other day when we just slipped it in. It was in for a few seconds. We have done this a few times and to be honest i don't know why we keep doing it if we aren't just going to have sex. Anyway. I have missed my period. I am usually regular. I think he might have put it in when I was most fertile. I do not have tender breasts. I have put on a few pounds. I get dizzy sometimes but my breast do not hurt. Sometimes i feel a little sick but this might all be in my head. I am having back pains, and have felt nauseous a few times and today i could barely eat lunch because i just wasn't hungry and it was Mexican, may favorite meal too. Could I be pregnant. I wouldn't mind. :)

Thank you!!!

If oyu only had sex the other day and oyu have missed a period already and it just slipped in I think you better get a sex education book how old are you

Synnen · Nov 26, 2007, 10:38 AM

Pre-ejaculate can get you as pregnant as ejaculate.

If he was inside of you, there's a chance you're pregnant. It's not a HUGE chance, but there's a chance.

Your period is already late--and you've taken a test. Did you use first morning urine for the test? The pregnancy hormone is strongest the first time you urinate in the morning. I would wait a day or two then take another test. If you still don't have your period after another week or so, then I would go see a doctor for a blood test.

macksmom · Nov 26, 2007, 11:49 AM

If you just had sex "the other day", even if it was just "putting it in"... it would be way too early to even tell if you were pregnant or not.

It take a fertilized egg about a week to travel down to the uterus and attach to the uterine lining and start producing HCG.

So, if you were pregnant...
A. you wouldn't be having pregnancy symptoms this early
B. it would be too early for ANY test to show up positive

Also, usually ovulation occurs midcycle... your explanation leads me to believe you had sex a few days before you were due for your period, if so the chances are extremely low that you conceived, but in no way impossible.

It's all a waiting game now... I would venture to say that you aren't pregnant. But all you can do is wait.
I would either wait until next month when you are due for your period and see if you get it or not... if not, then take a HPT.
Or wait 2-3 weeks and if you still don't have a period, call your doctor and request a blood pregnancy test.

eashley · Nov 26, 2007, 07:08 PM

I'm now having a weird feeling in what might be my fallopian tube. I've had a cyst before and this feeling similar to that. What could it be?

eashley · Nov 27, 2007, 07:35 PM

Yay I started! Thanks to everyone.

macksmom · Nov 28, 2007, 06:25 AM

Originally Posted by eashley

yay i started! Thanks to everyone.

Well good :)

Hopefully this incident has worried you enough that next time you won't just "slip it in" if you don't want to get pregnant.

eashley · Nov 28, 2007, 06:34 PM

Yeah I guess it was a wake up call. I wouldn't mind having a child but I'm not married or done with school so sure now would be a good time. Thank you all.

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