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    buttcrack Posts: 7, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 21, 2007, 01:10 AM
    Do I have a mental illness?
    Ok I'm 13 and know that there has to be something wrong with me cause I'm obsessed with girls and their parts and I masturbate about 6 times a week.. . Now that I have that off my chest, I need to know is this some kind of stage or am I just a sick and twisted person? Is this normal? Am I strange? I'm serious man.. .
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    Nov 21, 2007, 01:20 AM
    No. What you are doing is quite normal for a boy your age. Most normal human beings, once they reach the onset of puberty, explore their bodies and want to do with the sex with whom they are attracted that which comes normally in the course of growing as a human. If you were to act out to someone else physically with the urges you have at your age, then yes, that would be a problem.

    Have you spoken with your mom or dad or maybe even a school counselor about what you are thinking and feeling?
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    Nov 21, 2007, 01:38 AM
    Pfffffft no. parents don't really give me advice other than obvious things. I don't even know any student counselors nor would I want to talk to any. At least on this website I can get advice, while remaining anonymous.
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    Nov 21, 2007, 01:41 AM
    So, what would you like to know? Is what you are doing causing a problem for you outside of where you do it? I am a guy, by the way.
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    Nov 22, 2007, 03:27 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by buttcrack
    Ok im 13 and know that there has to be something wrong with me cause im obsessed with girls and their parts and i masturbate about 6 times a week. . . now that i have that off my chest, i need to know is this some kind of stage or am i just a sick and twisted person? is this normal? am i strange? im serious man. . .
    Ha ha, well you sound like a normal boy just hitting puberty to me... but don't let it interfere with your everyday life. Don't try to get a girlfriend to treat her like she's just something to sleep with, because she is not there for sex. She's there with you to be a companion. It's okay if when you are older you want to have sex, but I think for right now you should just self serve and wait for something special.
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    Nov 22, 2007, 05:58 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by buttcrack
    Ok im 13 and know that there has to be something wrong with me cause im obsessed with girls and their parts and i masturbate about 6 times a week. . . now that i have that off my chest, i need to know is this some kind of stage or am i just a sick and twisted person? is this normal? am i strange? im serious man. . .
    If you didn't do those types of things something would be wrong with you. You are quite normal.
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    Nov 22, 2007, 06:06 PM
    Serious illness, it is called growing up. So what you have to do is wait about 4 or 5 more years and it will get all better.
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    Nov 25, 2007, 01:26 PM
    Hi mate. I'm 13 too and I must say, I feel excatly the same way! I have a girlfriend and I feel like I want to shag her all the time when I'm with her. And my penis always stands to attention. Don't worry about it mate, it happenes to everyone

    Good luck :)
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    Nov 26, 2007, 11:31 AM
    its natural to be mastubating at your age (its some why to exersics LOL!) Plus beening obsessed with girls is fine as well but u don't randomly go up to them say things then walk away they'll think your weird
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    May 19, 2008, 10:31 PM
    Trust me normal! See like a thousand years ago people needed to survive and reproduce, so your instinc tells you you need to reproduce sooooooooo, your brain turns to hinky city, but don't worry about it and now that its over its OK, hope this helps
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