Check with your local social services office. There are MILLIONS of sites for adoption.
I seriously recommend you find a local one, and ask to talk to a local counselor specializing in adoption--and ask if they can recommend one NOT affiliated with their agency. A reputable agency will have a referral for you.
It's a hard step--and you deserve to know ALL of your options. Try going to Planned Parenthood and ask them for referrals as well.
One thing I would recommend is to NOT go through a private adoption. Private adoptions favor the adoptive parents in most cases (since they're the ones REALLY fronting the money for everything, almost all adoption proceedings favor the adoptive family). At least with an agency, there are rules in place for YOUR peace of mind.
While most states do not allow contracts between birth parents and adoptive parents, try to get your agreement in WRITING, so that the adoptive parents can not say later that they didn't agree to whatever it is you'd like them to do for contact (pictures, letters, phone calls, emails, visitations, whatever).
Sites like Adoption.com are a great place to start... but I really recommend going to a local social services and actually speaking with someone there, and I really REALLY urge you to get pre-adoption counseling, to make SURE you understand what you're giving up.
My heart goes out to you, and I wish you the best of luck with everything.
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