[sxybaby1]

No disrespect to you but how have you got that he is more gay than bi after everything I've send in all off my messages??

[mwilliams15]

Yes.. To me it sounds like he's just too scared to hurt you. He loves you, its obvious you love him, but eventually its just not going to work out the way you wish it would. He looks at gay sites, and you have caught him looking at the gay stuff in the past. There is something he is missing, and it is a man.
You need to sit down with him and talk in all honesty. Tell him you aren't going to judge him or hate him, but if he would rather be with a man then he should go. Tell him you don't want the drama of him sitting out in the car crying. You both need to think about what is going to be best for each of you. Talk calmly and give him reassurance that you will still be there for him.
You are going to hear only what you want to hear
I think what you are wanting is for everyone to get on here and to tell you to stay with him and that everything is going to be fine, but you need to take a step back and really analyze this.
This is your life. You are 26 years old. If I was in the same situation, I wouldn't continue to live my life this way. Not only is it bad for you, but its going to really confusing to your kids.

[sxybaby1]

Ive done all that told him that if he is just to tell me now and then we can both make a life for ourselves told him id never stop from seeing the kids all that and he doesn't want that he says he doesn't want anybody else. What if I make a big mistake make him go and find out I was wrong what he is telling me is the truth don't know what would be worse, me letting him go and finding out I was wrong or to let him stay and find out he is.

If he wanted to go he could and he knows that.

[silvermoon]

MWILLIAMS15 - SHUT UP AND BE HAPPY THAT THAT COUPLE SORTED IT OUT!

To sxybaby1: perhaps your boyfriend just started exploring himself a little late, but if he loves you, it shouldn't matter to you whether he's bi or not. Plus, bi's and gays have their feminime side more defined, plus they're just sweet.
Best of luck, have patience, and I'm sure u 2 will work everthign out. From what I see, he love you like crazy.

[talaniman]

I don't read chatspeak that well so bear with me. His sexuality is irrelevant to me, as ALL I am concerned with is he honest and faithful. I think you should focus on having your child first, and have an honest dialog about what you expect as his wife. Cheating and lying will not cut it. That's what you alluded to in your first post.

[Josie1966]

Listen...
There are many types of relationships in this world.
There are women that is married to bi men and love it.
You have to worried about you and your kids and come up with a plan. Are you going to stay or go. I know it hard when you love someone... but there is more people in bisexual relationships today then ever. It is not something people talk about but it do happen. Do your reach first.

[ayashe]

Yes, I agree the post was hard to read, and I gave up half way through.

[Spiker2008]

I would agree that you satisfy him in many ways but one... Sexually! Now go find Mr. Right... And get rid of Mr. Right Now!

[smoothy]

If he is with you a female then he isn't gay. At most he would be bisexual. Gay men don't mess with women. That's what Homosexual means. Anyone that's plays with both groups is by definition bisexual.

[mafiaangel180]

I must say, congratulations on making a post that is one gigantic run on sentence. Lol. Not once did you use a period. Lol. With that being said, I hope you dumped his a$$. He should have told you from the get-go. But then again, you did go and get pregnant with the second after you found out, right? But yeah, dump him.

[NeedKarma]

The OP has not posted since Dec. 5 2007. She mostly likely is gone.