Originally Posted by
RahulZ
Its been 2 yrs now...My relationship with a girl continuing...I fall in her love and proposed her 1 yr back but she denied my proposal saying she dont want to marry some1 as she wants to be nun... shes catholic and im not.. but even she added only if family member forces then only she will mary a guy from her religion only.... then she disconnected from me but i really fell down then... i tried contacting her.. with those positive hopes.... now she talks with me... but ready to have just friendship with me... just plain friendship... But im worried... i love her and dont want to loose her at any cost... shes really nice but it really gets hurt me when i start thinking abt her...
Please help me in this case?? should i leave her or should i continue with those filmy hopes... she started sharing stuff with me but becomes rude and warns me if that topic brought in picture...
Guys ur help will survive me.. i really love her lot and donnt want to loose her...
Thank you so much peggyhill and statictable... u people are really nice...
But it will take really hard for me to carry out with her.. as truth is really stright forward. She and me are away from each other these days but we communicate lot by mail. Recently I come to know that she's having some problem in life and she don't want to share that with anyone.. not even with her mom.once she tried but seems her mom felt ill... Her mother is already having some deasise.. I dono even sometime I'm worried with what could be that problem.It seems that she will share with me if he she feels comfortable. Coz I convinced her saying it need to be shared with your best friend.sharing will definitely relax some of your mental pressure. And reply to that she told me she hasn't mate the fellow to shre with or she don't know with whom to share and she avoided me by saying I don’t want to make off somebody’s mood.
I really want to know wats wrong with her life.Now guide me people how should I talk with her in next meetings. I have decided to ask that problem when I personally meet her after 2-3 months.Im away from her on some biz duty.
Guide me guys.
Is the situation is really complicated?I want frank guide lines.
Thanks for reading.