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    Jun 29, 2009, 02:13 PM
    Okay but a dating site is really just flirting with girls, I mean guys don't really try and make guy friends on dating sites do they?? My friends think it is weird too.. I mean it is. Why do guys then have a profile on a dating site if they have a girlfriend?
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    Jun 29, 2009, 02:29 PM
    Is he even checking it?
    It sends him an email one a week with his matches.
    Do you have reason to believe that he is chatting with anyone?
    If you believe that he is faithful then you are making a big deal out of nothing.
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    Jun 29, 2009, 02:37 PM
    You're both young and you've been together 4 months. That's not a long time in the grand scheme of things. But if he's continuing to visit this dating site and maintain his profile and you're not, then his level of commitment is different from yours. Govern yourself accordingly.
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    Jun 29, 2009, 02:42 PM
    well he randomly said he won movie tickets and I said where and then he said on this dating site where we met, and it is not a place where they send you matches its like you can check other peoples profiles out and send things to each other. I mean there is nothing else to do on this site then chat with others. So I mean how could he not be chatting with others ? Since he is on it occasionly as he won movie tickets on the website just last week. Like if he is in town or something I trust him it is just tooo weird with this dating site..
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    Jun 29, 2009, 02:44 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by RNM View Post
    well he randomly said he won movie tickets and i said where and then he said on this dating site wehre we met, and it is not a place where they send you matches its like you can check other peoples profiles out and send things to each other. i mean there is nothing else to do on this site then chat with others. so i mean how could he not be chatting with others ? since he is on it occasionly as he won movie tickets on the website jsut last week. Like if he is in town or something i trust him it is just tooo weird with htis dating site..
    Then I guess this is where that part of a relationship called communication sets in.

    Time for a chat since it is bothering you so much.
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    Jun 29, 2009, 02:57 PM
    He's being very disrespectful,an its not about jealousy its about respect!! If he isn't doing anything then why does he need 2 check it?? If its no big deal then shut it dwn or maybe he's not as serious as you about th relationship.u need 2 open your moth an say summat!!
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