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    andrea_louise Posts: 23, Reputation: 1
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    Oct 23, 2007, 05:37 PM
    My so called best friend and my ex
    Help really need advice.
    I was having a casual fling with a lad for quite a while and I really liked him hoping it would develop into something else. I had confided in my best friend all the things me and him got up to, and I feel she got in between me and him by getting very close to him. A couple of months ago she told me that him and her were now dating and there was nothing I could do I about it.
    I was really upset and I said to her why are you doing this to me because I felt I confided in her and told her personal private things. I have stopped speaking to her because she has hurt me and I also have cut all ties with him.
    Since I work in the neighbourhood I see him often walking passed looking in at me, I feel really hurt and betrayed but I am finding it hard to accept what has happened.
    Recently I found out that they are planning to move in together after Christmas, I am not happy about this. But I know I can't do anything.
    She is 10 years older than him (he is 23)

    Just really confused I don't know what to do, feel as though I should move (cos it will hurt me if it got more serious after that) Moving away means I will never see them again and I will never know how it worked out, think it would help me in the long run.
    Can someone please give me advice
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    AKaeTrue Posts: 1,599, Reputation: 272
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    Oct 23, 2007, 05:48 PM
    I know this betrayal has got to weigh heavy on you now.
    Moving away isn't the answer though.
    You cannot run from something like your feelings... they will just catch up with you on another day with another person.
    It will take some time to get over this, but be strong and don't let them bring you down to their level.
    There will be another guy...
    As for your girl friend, I am truly sorry... but she wasn't a true friend and it's better to know sooner rather than later.
    Let the 2 of them have one another because you deserve better...
    Time will heal all wounds - just hang in there and try to do things you enjoy doing to get your mind off the situation.

    Best wishes.
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    msilva76 Posts: 26, Reputation: 3
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    Oct 23, 2007, 07:12 PM
    She was not your friend to begin with cause friends don't do that to each other and I wouldn't worry about getting back with him cause more than likely he will do it again and he will probably cheat on your friend to
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