[AustProd6]

History: The Antichrist left me 3 months ago. I imposed No Contact immediately (After all she has now left me 14 times in 18 years). Moved house changed all numbers and Email addressthe lot. Just didn't want to change jobs.
She called me today at work:
Me: Good Morning (Business Name) John Speaking
Antichrist: Can you talk
Me: Sure Can... Who's This? (Knowing full well who it was)
Do you like that. Stab right off the mark.
Well that atichrist rang to tell me how concerned she was that I was paying way too much Child Support for my 3 girls and that we should come to an arrangement.
What? Did I just get run over by a bus? I was looking for the bright light so I could stay away from it.
She said that I should ring her when I get a free moment some time.
I decided that NOPE I was going to maintain NO CONTACT. Low and behold she rings me just now.
I declined the offer to have a reduced private agreement choosing the $1600 per monh I pay her as devised by the Australian Government.
She went rank, I remained calm and ended the discussion, thanking her for her concern. She really got mega peeved when I told her I had paid them a month in advance.
Power Baby. I have it for the first time in 18 years.
They do always double back. Just be patient and Wait.
Yes Wait. Maintain that Silence. The only reason she rang me was cause she knew I was no way going to chase her.
Control Freaks like this cannot stand it when they know their boot sinking failed and you are on top of things.
They can't bare it they when think you can live without them.
That little win just ended months of despair and grievance. 1/2 hour on a phone call I didn't pay for just made up for 3 months of mental anguish.
My friends, just say to yourselves Bring it on and wait.:D

[kuulski]

Congrats! Sounds like you are doing good :>)