[Nefatiri]

I'll be brief.
I have an emotionally abusive mother that I haven't talked to since February. My thoughts on her can be summarized as one question ,"When's the funeral?". I have developed a bit of a drinking habit and definitely a pot habit. My ideal solution is a fresh start, somewhere else very very far... say Siberia.
1. Is there a way other than matricide to deal with this woman?
2. Does anyone know the immigration policy for Siberai?
3. Thanks for even bothering to read this.
Have a great day...

[mysteriousj]

Hi

First you need to express your anger your frustrations to her calmly and tell her how you feel.
Secondly make peace with yourself so that you can be free because one thing you should know is no one is responsible for someone's happiness but an individual is responsible fro their own happiness.
And finally you need to forgive her for the things that she has done to your feelings.
I hope it will help.

I wish you luck

[firmbeliever]

Nefatiri,
I have some questions for you.
How old are you?
Is there a possibility of moving out of your mother's contact range?
Do you have any other support from family members and do they know about the abuse?

[mysteriousj]

OK don't wish her dead, If its possible move out.
That's the best solution right now.
Life is too short to be feeling miserable you.

[brookeleigh]

I would def. talk to her. Tell her how you feel and show your emotions you know? Never wish bad things like that on a person and especially your mother.