[hakuna matata]

When I watching porn movie, I will put my attention on the male pornstars' body especially on their penis... And I found that I will get erected when I watching their cock... Later, I found that I will actually hope to have a look at some guy's penis while walking on the road... Am I a gay?

[Ash123]

Are you attracted to women?

Do you ever feel "in love" with any guys?

[RustyFairmount]

You might want to call a local GLBT support organization and ask them for some guidance. I'm sure with some deep thought, and some time, you'll figure out your path.

Just be careful before you act on advice. There are gays that will do whatever they can to "turn" you to their side. Likewise there are straights that will explain how "wrong" being gay is. This is YOUR decision. Make it carefully and wisely.

[trueblooe]

when I watching porn movie, I will put my attention on the male pornstars' body especially on their penis...And I found that I will get erected when I watching their cock...Later, I found that I will actually hope to have a look at some guy's penis while walking on the road...Am I a gay?

U sound like you are or you could be curios because you have a small penile I suggest you think very hard about your circumstances first of all you will try and hide it then you will get so good and covering your tracks that you will start to try and decieve yourself just remember what ever your vice is there is a reward and if you are going down the path of raiding the chutney locker there is no turning back you are on a one way trip to gaydom first of all a ripped and saw anus an then tremendous guilt followed by pangs of suicide and strange outbursts of uncontrolled anger / emotion I suggest you identify the root cause and deal with the vice and move on other wise you are on borrowed time

[Ash123]

Please answer my 2 questions and I'll give you an answer...

[ky37m]

You might want to call a local GLBT support organization and ask them for some guidance. I'm sure with some deep thought, and some time, you'll figure out your path.

Just be careful before you act on advice. There are gays that will do whatever they can to "turn" you to their side. Likewise there are straights that will explain how "wrong" being gay is. This is YOUR decision. Make it carefully and wisely.

That has to be the funniest thing I've heard in a while. You make it sound as if the fags are a bunch of "stepford wives", trying to convert the universe into one big gay parade. Dude, come on, do you really think that's how it is. Maybe your right, I'm just a small town country boy, but that's so not how it is in the parts.
Now the part about the straights, ill give you that!!
Now to the question at hand, and let me make this very clear to all
if you enjoy looking at a penis, if you get an erection while looking at another mans body, you are, without a doubt, undeniable, absoloutely, positively 100% gay or at the very least bi! final answer.
:D

[brookeleigh]

I would think you were gay or bi! Depends if you get turned on my females as well.

[kittykatmeli]

how long have you felt that way? i'm the same way too when i watch a porn i only get turned on by the girl, or perfer to see a girl on girl movie. but the only way i can is to think about a girl. so i think you might be bi!

[ky37m]

Rusty fairmount,
Are you suggesting that gay people are not human? That comment needs further explanation, and the idea that someone is not gay until they act upon it is absurd...
Does that mean that you were not straight until you had sex with a girl... come on, maybe you were concentrating so hard on the typing that you didn't realize what was coming out. Lets use our noggins before we throw out useless comments.

[grammadidi]

I don't think anyone can tell you whether you are gay or not - especially strangers. Looking at specific same sex body parts and getting turned on is not necessarily a sign that one is gay! I think that you know, in your heart, if you are straight, gay or even bi-sexual.

You don't say how old you are, but your age could have something to do with your reactions, too. If you are questioning your sexuality, you could benefit from counselling from a non-biased therapist.

Hugs, Didi

[RustyFairmount]

rusty fairmount,
are you suggesting that gay people are not human? that comment needs further explanation, and the idea that someone is not gay until they act upon it is absurd...
does that mean that you were not straight until you had sex with a girl... come on, maybe you were concentrating so hard on the typing that you didnt realize what was coming out. lets use our noggins before we throw out useless comments.

I said nor implied anything of the sort. I think you're trying to read between the lines for an answer that simply isn't there.

Gays, Straights, Bis, etc. are human, equal, and indistinguishable from any other human until their actions set them apart. That action doesn't have to be sex. It can be a gesture, a look, something spoken, written, typed, voted, etc. For example, a 10 year old boy writing a tender valentine for his 5th grade sweetheart is a sign of being straight.

It's entirely normal for straight men to check out guys from time to time. I'm not suggesting that all straight men check out guys. I'm just saying that the simple thought of another man is not enough to be "gay." Actions seal the deal.

[RustyFairmount]

KY37M,

You may want to take your own advice. I used my noggin. My comment was not useless. I'm not sure the same could be said of yours... Pity.

[ky37m]

KY37M,

You may want to take your own advice. I used my noggin. My comment was not useless. I'm not sure the same could be said of yours... Pity.

Your comment on my post was, and I quote "Gay is as gay does. I don't believe a person to be gay until they act on it. Until then, they're just human like anybody else."

You are distinguishing between the two. Maybe you didn't mean to, but you are basically saying until you act upon your gayness, your human like the rest of us.
If I misunderstood, please accept my regrets, but after 30 years of being called a freak and "a waste", forgive me if I'm a little sensitive to the subject.
Anyway, back to the issue, I will agree with you that on occasion a straight man might look at another man, but in all honesty, how many times have you, as a straight man, looked at another man and become aroused? Do you really think that happens a lot? If it does, then everything I know about straight men just flew out the window. Most straight men, in my experience are sickened at the thought of being with another man or imagining another mans anatomy. The bottom line here is that regardless of gay or straight, black or white, fat or skinny, hakunna needs to discover his real self and learn to accept who he is.

[RustyFairmount]

your comment on my post was, and i quote "Gay is as gay does. I don't believe a person to be gay until they act on it. Until then, they're just human like anybody else."

you are distinguishing between the two. maybe you didnt mean to, but you are basically saying until you act upon your gayness, your human like the rest of us.
if i misunderstood, please accept my regrets, but after 30 years of being called a freak and "a waste", forgive me if im a little sensitive to the subject.
anyway, back to the issue, i will agree with you that on occasion a straight man might look at another man, but in all honesty, how many times have you, as a straight man, looked at another man and become aroused? do you really think that happens alot? if it does, then everything i know about straight men just flew out the window. most straight men, in my experience are sickened at the thought of being with another man or imagining another mans anatomy. the bottom line here is that regardless of gay or straight, black or white, fat or skinny, hakunna needs to discover his real self and learn to accept who he is.

Amen. I see how my comment was open for mis-interpretation. Please accept my sincere apologies for typing that comment so poorly. I didn't mean to offend. My intent was simply to point out that anybody can be curious, maybe even to the point of imagining what it might be like please someone of the same sex. I have. Big deal!

But I've never hit on a man. I've never rented gay porn. I've never DONE anything. They were just some random thoughts in between the other thoughts that I really really like (ahh, Jenna, Kobe, Veronica... Mmm... )

If having the guts to admit that makes me a freak, so be it.

I'm off to "view" some more interesting web sites now... ;-) Have a wonderful weekend.

Rusty

[BiWiccanAndProud]

Well that depends do you like girls? If you do then you may not be gay but bi! I find both girls and guys arousing and attractive. Have you ever found yourself looking at a guy and feeling aroused or can't stop looking at them, like you take little glances at them?

[Nyorovita]

My friend you are gay period...