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countrygirl0788 · Sep 30, 2007, 08:36 PM

How do I just go up to a guy and start talking? I'm shy and not really sure how to start a conversation.

Biggie · Sep 30, 2007, 08:43 PM

Well, you find one, walk over to him, open your mouth, then say something:p

Biggie · Sep 30, 2007, 08:57 PM

I was serious. How else do you expect to talk to a guy? I doubt anyone on here will give you much different advice than I gave you. You're a pretty girl, so I don't see what the trouble is.

2tonearmy · Oct 1, 2007, 12:47 AM

well really, it isn't that complicated.

just think about how guys, or really anybody for that matter starts up a random cnversation with you. I mean you're going to start as just friends anyway, so therefore it really doesn't matter if you go off an example of a male or a female. Just don't seem too interested in him, if indeed you are very interested, that may turn him off, just seem casual.
perhaps once a friendly relationship is established, he may be the one chasing after you.

best of luck!

Biggie · Oct 2, 2007, 07:57 PM

Let me offer you some free advice. Don't come on here and rate somebody's answer bad when it was an honest answer. If it wasn't the answer you were looking for that's fine, but the people on here do their best to give the best answers possible. Learn to respect that.

Gybites911 · Oct 9, 2008, 11:14 AM

For me I'm not a girl. But I wait for a girl's birthday and I buy her a present. Then I start talking.

NItEMArE129 · Oct 9, 2008, 05:16 PM

Well the simplest way is to just go up to a new guy and say hi, introduce yourself, get their name, and just say cool. Don't stay too long the first time, and wakl away before it gets awkward. If you see them again later on, just wave and say hey, watsup? After that, its all improvisation pretty much. U can ask about their family, their hobbies, their activities, etc. etc. It's really up to u, but remain calm. He's just a guy (no matter how cute, funny, or sexy u may think he is) and if you treat him like a guy and not some kind of sex god, chances are he'll treat you like a person too.

450donn · Oct 9, 2008, 06:00 PM

Coming from a person that never learned how to make small talk I can tell you it is difficult to learn. But once learned it becomes really easy to open up. Start with something simple, like "Nice coat', or" I like your hair cut". Then see where it goes from there. Corney? Yea, but then again I am OLD and been out of the game for more years than I can count. But, you get the idea I hope. Remember, practice makes perfect.

Revival · Oct 9, 2008, 10:56 PM

What kind of scenario are you most likely to engage in a conversation with a guy?

Bar- compliment his shirt, and he'll compliment you for sure or blow you off. If he blows you off, don't take it personally, there could be a lot of things that caused him to do so.

Public area during the day- Notice something small, a book, a watch, or just something that can be related to the day itself.

Easy-peezy-lemon squeezy. Guys are simple... you talk we'll either listen or at least pretend to... that's going to be the thing you got to worry about. But speaking if the girl makes the first move and starts a conversation he should pretty much be yours from the get go.

Revival · Oct 10, 2008, 06:55 AM

You got to remember there are going to be two outcomes at all times. No or Yes... but again I quote a show called "keys to the vip"

"Babe Ruth has been remembered as the home run champ of his time. What most people forget is that he also lead the majors in strikeouts. The moral of the story is no one remembers the strikeouts, but everyone remembers the home runs, so swing for the fences."

Seriously, go in with the mind set that YOU CAN DO IT!! And you should do fine and if not, shake it off and move along to the next candidate.