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    Alaskagirl Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Sep 28, 2007, 08:03 PM
    Guys is it just me?
    I don't Understand Why I can't find anyone here!! I Just moved from Alaska To GA. And I just can't find anyone that I think is into me as I am him... Makes me wounder if it's just me... or maybe I'm looking to hard... If any one has any help For me Give me some tips... How do I Find some one??
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    Sep 28, 2007, 08:11 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Alaskagirl
    I don't Understand Why I can't find anyone here!!!! I Just moved from Alaska To GA. And I just can't find anyone that I think is into me as I am him....Makes me wounder if it's just me...or maybe I'm looking to hard.... If any one has any help For me Give me some tips.... How do I Find some one?!?!?!
    You could be looking to hard for someone. The right "someone" will come in time. You could always consider finding someone online as well though. I know it might sound crazy but my aunt found her husband on one of those dating websites and they have now been married for almost 5 years and just had their 3rd baby almost two weeks ago. Might sound crazy but I've seen it. As for you, just be yourself, I just moved to Georgia last February and I love it:) I have never had more fun and meeting all sorts of new people!
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    Sep 29, 2007, 02:30 AM
    There is nothing wrong with you, you're just worrying too much over the fact. Always remember, things happen when you least expect them. So calm down, try to enjoy life and before you know it he will be knocking on your door
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    Sep 29, 2007, 02:36 AM
    I've been flying solo all 26 years of my life. Just be patient.

    PS This is something I will let itself work out. If it's meant to be then something will happen, and vice versa.
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    Sep 29, 2007, 04:07 AM
    Do not be looking so hard. To be honest you should not be looking at all. If you push something that is not the right timing then it will defiantly not work out. Relax, stop looking. Keep busy and when the right time comes it will happen so quickly you won't know what hit you. Do you know what I am saying here?

    Like Biggie said, PATIENCE IS DEFIANTLY IMPORTANT.
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    Sep 29, 2007, 04:23 AM
    I agree with Jesushelper's answer above. I do want to add that some people who you might be interested in could possibly perceive you or anyone else as being "needy" if you or anyone else comes on so strong as wanting some kind of close relationship quickly. It could make the person who is being approached "back-off" because of the perceived neediness of the other person. For me, I like to get to know people and let things happen naturally without forcing situations to happen. Some things just take time and patience.
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    Oct 1, 2007, 01:00 AM
    Well there is the possibility that you are trying too hard, I mean if you search too hard for happiness, you will never find it, not completely. I know, I have very big personal issues regarding my friend making and relationship handling abilities, and I have found that the happiest relationships I have been in, were the ones I joined, while not searching.

    Sometimes you just have to let happiness find you, and trust me, it will. And when it does, you will feel spectacular.
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